Seven Beautiful Pearls Which Make A Wife Special


1) The Patient:

The woman who remains patient in all circumstances, and never whines, moans, nags or complains. When some trouble or affliction hits her, she turns to Allah for help.

2) The Protector:

The woman who protects her husband’s wealth & her chastity when he is away from home. She doesn’t gossip or mingle with other men, nor does she allow anyone in his house without his approval. She knows, respects and stays within the boundaries of his gheerah.

When he returns, she runs to his arms, as if she was anticipating for his return. She allows him time to relax before anything and does not burden him with the day’s problems, but listens attentively to his needs and does her best to take his tiredness away.

3) The Lover:

The women who adores her husband, beautifies herself, and smells nice for him. She craves for his children to the extent that whenever her husband glances at her, du’aa pours for her from the bottom of his heart. She is characterised with shyness and modesty, glancing with love in her eyes, only for her husband.

4) The Good Do-er:

The women who has an excellent reputation in society – for being kind, caring & courteous. She is good with her neighbours & relatives & never backbites or displays jealousy.

5) The Content:

The women who never casts her eyes at material things and is content with whatever little her husband gives her. She is thankful to him for every morsel that he feeds her, every clothe that he gifts her, including the roof over her head. She makes her gratefulness known to him in words & action and thus, soothes her husband’s heart.

As the Prophet (saw) said, she looks at those less fortunate than her in the material world and is thankful to her Lord and her Husband for that.

6) The Pious:

The women who spends much of her day in dhikr, reading the Quran & Salaah and her nights in praying tahajjud & crying to Allah for forgiveness. She encourages her husband to give daw’ah in his spare time. As the Prophet (saw) said, she looks at those more pious than her in the religious sense and strives to progress further in piety and knowledge.

7) The Sweet Smiler:

The woman who smiles excessively, especially when her husband is at home. She always talks gently, choosing the sweetest of words, that it seems that pearls are dripping from her mouth. She never raises her voice while talking to her husband.

If her husband is angry with her for some reason & shouts at her, she does not answer him back but maintains a dignified silence. When he has calmed down, she offers him cool water & apologizes to him admitting her mistake, even if she wasn’t at fault.

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6 Responses to “Seven Beautiful Pearls Which Make A Wife Special”

  1. Question bro, can u please clarify this:

    “If her husband is angry with her for some reason & shouts at her, she does not answer him back but maintains a dignified silence.”

    What if the husband is at wrong?

    • Assalaamu ‘alaykum,

      The Prophet (saw) said;

      “I guarantee a house in the outskirts of Jannah for the one who gives up arguing even if he/she is in the right…” [Tirmidhee]

      So even if the husband is in the wrong, she should give up arguing expecting reward from Allaah.

      • SO TRUE!

        A man by nature, loves to be the ‘king of the jungle’, wanting to prove himself right, it makes him feel good.

        2 seconds of patience from the wife can go a long way…

        The ‘king of the jungle’ doesn’t like to be proved wrong by a female, its the way his cute mind works.

        He doesn’t want the ‘shame’ of ‘i got beaten by a female’ running through his mind. So he effortlessly and painstakingly tries to prove himself, and if he cant beat your argument, what does he do? WALK OUT IN A RAGE!

        Quite simply, its all about psychology. Let the arguer (husband) win (without him knowing u let him win of course) and that always cools things down quicker…

        At the end of the day, WOMEN ARE SMARTER!!!

  2. Abu Islaam Says:

    Women need to realise that although they are physically weaker, they are mentally stronger than men and can control them easier, IF THEY USE THE CORRECT TACTICS.

    For example, if a woman wats something form her husband all she has to do is go make a nice cup of coffee/hot chocolate, look all nice, come sit down besides him, a smile, sweet talk, and thats it!

    Seriously THATS IT!

    He’s trapped!

    You’ve got him!

    A shy sweet look, a stroke on his arm etc. He’s fallen. He’s out!

    Then say, “So, can u do such and such” or, “So, can u take me (wherevr)”.

    IT WORKS!

    Try it out. Tho unfortunately women don’t know their own ‘powers’…

    • Abdullaah Says:

      haha I totally agree with u bro! Men are weak subhaanAllaah. …and its probably a good thing most women don’t know!

  3. Ahsanul Hoque Says:

    Assalamualaikum, what a nice topic it is ! Jazakallahu khairan

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